So your best friend broke up with her boyfriend and you think you guys might be feeling each other, so what do you do? Well one of the first girl codes ever is not to date each other’s exes. It’s something you just don’t do. It crosses boundaries and besides “Girls rule and boys drool “right? However, there may be a few special exceptions where we don’t mind, maybe you should take a look below for the few exceptions.
1. How close are you and your “best” friend?
Sometimes we call each other our best friends but we really don’t view each other that way. Women often say things we don’t exactly hold to be true.
2. How long did they date?
If it was a fling chances are heavy feelings weren’t involved. But if they were “head over heels” in love you may be overstepping your boundaries. Even though people say they’re over each other there is a good chance they’re not. Feelings don’t just go away you know.
3. Is it infatuation or is it real?
As humans we tend to want what we can’t have. It’s simply for those reasons stated, ” We can’t have it!!” We condition our minds to believe that we cannot go on without having this “thing” in our lives and then we may get the chance to get it and realize it’s nothing of what it seemed. Hence, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. So thoroughly, examine your thoughts and feelings and make sure they are real.
4. Are you guys on the same page?
So you think you guys are feeling each other and you want to start dating, turns out he just wants to fool around. In any type, form or existence of a relationship, communication is key. Just because you think he likes you doesn’t mean he wants to be exclusive. Make sure you’re not making a fool of yourself and you guys are always on the same page.
In the end, you must know you’re making a good decision and exercise all your avenues before making any drastic decision. You don’t want to ruin a friendship or look like a desperate women all because of a guy!