Being in a courtship or marriage can be beautiful but, with all things there comes a challenge. It doesn’t mean it’s not meant for us, it just means that we have to put a little effort into it to see it bloom. In order to have the relationship you desire, you must know what to build on and how to create your foundation. Having a successful and healthy relationship relies on three key ingredients: trust, truth, and time. By using the three T’s of M.E.A.T., you can build the love you desire.
Now this is key for any type of relationship to thrive. You must completely and wholeheartedly trust the person you are with. If you cannot trust them, you should not be with them. Any relationship where trust is an issue brings in all types of other issues. One such issue is insecurity. This issue can be more of an issue than people may think. You must know who you are and who you are with; you must believe in it without a doubt.
This goes hand in hand with trust. NO ONE wants to be with or around a person who is not honest. It doesn’t matter how big or small the situation, you must know that you can believe in what they are saying and know that it is real. It may not always be what you want to hear but at least you know when everyone else fails you, your partner won’t. You must have open honesty and a bond that no one can break.
It tells all and builds all. NOTHING happens overnight and NOTHING good comes without a fight. Time gives you the opportunity to put all your tools into play and to give them a chance to work for you. It helps you to get to know each other and get to know who you both are as individuals. It helps you find out what makes each other tick, and what you each love about each other. These are all important factors of a relationship. You must go through a few test to know and trust how far you have come.
We all want that blissful, lustful, heart-filled relationship with someone we truly care about, but we must be willing to put in the work to make it happen. We must know who we are and be willing to discover things in our relationship with our partner. It’s all or nothing. Are you ready to give it a chance?